Are you not having any luck finding a girlfriend offline world?
Are you usually likely to make a fool of yourself when approaching a girl, and then just retreat from her and then steer clear of her until the embarrassment wears off?
Or maybe you find that you run into a lot of girls who are not what you are looking for in a girlfriend?
If either of these seems to be like you then you may need to start looking online and bypass the initial approach, or fine tune your search to find exactly what you are interested in.
Online you can avoid the physical approach and talk from the comfort of your computer at first. This will show a girl what kind of guy you really are before you have a chance to screw it up!
3 Tips To Find a Girlfriend Online
Don’t Try To Fit Into Her Wants
When you meet a girl online you can easily chat her up to figure out who she is and what she wants in life. And as a bonus, if you see a girl you like on an online dating site then you can pretty much view what she likes without even having to chat with her yet.
Remember though, that whether you meet her on an dating website or on a social networking site you have to acknowledge the real you. You have to express your real hobbies, values, wishes, and needs in life. Why? That's the only way to find the perfect girlfriend!
If she likes you because of what you tell her than she is starting to like the guy who you are pretending to be, not the guy you are. The guy that you actually are and she may not be as compatible as well as the fake you and her. This is not something you want to discover month later.
Besides that, the real you will come out eventually, and if she is not happy with the real you then she will feel betrayed and upset that you lied to her – even if you think it wasn't that big of a deal. The best policy is always honesty.
Don't Show Her Your Best Side
It's a popular trend to show a girl your best picture before you meet her. You know, the one that captured every feature just perfect!. That’s the one that reveals you in your best light, and even though it may look like you – it’s only a perfect still moment of you.
Pictures and reality can be quite different. In normal life your face is not unmoving the ‘in person’ test when you finally meet.
Write as You Would Normally Talk in Person
Until I wrote as a career, I didn’t understand how different I sounded on paper as opposed to in real life. Now, I try to write just like I talk – especially when I'm talking to someone who I know well.
Most people size you up after observing many different things, like the way you move, the things you do, and the way you speak. So if they think you are a scholar because of the way you write, and then they meet you and realize that your character is way different from the way you write – you may be in for a let down, because they may find themselves disappointed.
Now I’m not saying that if you a speech issue they are going to automatically turn away. I am referring to the words you use and how you use them. If you describe your latest vacation in writing as ‘an spectacular journey that gave you insight into yourself’ but in person explain your latest trip in words like ‘a trip that let you see a lot of things’ then there is a difference in tone and it will alter the way you are viewed by others.
So if a girl knows you to be very detailed with your writing than she will anticipate you to be descriptive with your words. Make sure they match! Bellaisa owns the Relationship Circle, a website with relationship advice for men on many different dating and relationship issues such as how to find love . Stop by and be a part of the circle today!
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By: Bellaisa Filippis